The world seems crazy, doesn't it? Stress and pollution and wars and overpopulation and so on and so on. And in your personal life, you've got worries and drama and upsetting interactions with people, conflicts at work, conflicts at home, and so on.
This craziness is "normal."
Something very simple can make it all better. I am not kidding. Check it out: Cure For Normal.
You know how you feel uncomfortable around people when they are uncomfortable being around you? There is a self-feeding loop in human relationships, and you can use it to your advantage.
Assume people like you. That's it. If you assume people like you, you'll tend to treat them in a certain way, and your demeanor will usually support your assumption.
Read more about this: How to Create a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy.
There are many aspects of the human psyche that create self-feeding loops. One of them has to do with goals. If you assume something can be done, you will try harder and persist longer (making the goal more likely to be achieved) than if you doubt it can be done.
You can use this phenomenon to your advantage. Learn more: How to Create a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy.
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